It’s the taking part that counts

‘It’s the taking part that counts’ is a phrase often bandied about to make people feel better if they don’t win or get placed in a competition. Mostly it just washes over us and we’re still fed up that we didn’t get a prize. Perhaps we even think about throwing in the towel and not bothering to enter any more competitions. Last week I had an experience that made me truly agree that it’s not the winning, it’s the taking part that counts.

My Speakers’ Club asked me to represent them in a Speech Evaluation Contest against two other clubs. This involves giving a four minute speech on the strengths and weaknesses of a ‘target’ speech which all three competitors have just watched. I was a bit reluctant since I’ve only been in the club eighteen months but decided to have a go anyway. My fear was that I wouldn’t be able to think of anything to say or I would dry up or I would speak in a muddled, incoherent way.

On the night, I discovered that one of my competitors runs a public speaking coaching business and the other had been education director of his club for fifteen years. This gave plenty of opportunity for making a fool of myself! Needless to say I came third (i.e. last!) in the competition BUT I was surprised to feel good in the face of defeat. There were lots of positives from the evening: I’d spoken to a larger audience than usual, I’d taken part in a speaking competition for the first time, I lasted the full four minutes, I’d been a ‘team player’ by agreeing to take part and my fellow Club members told me I hadn’t disgraced myself or let down the Club. I came away on a high!

So, what’s all this got to do with writing? It’s to urge you to enter writing competitions even if you think you don’t stand a chance of winning. You will learn and gain experience from each competition entry, it might be writing to a tight deadline, trying to write to a different word count than usual or experimenting with a new genre. Don’t worry about winning, concentrate on the challenge of producing the best work you can.

And to get you started, have a go at one (or more!) of these:

Erewash Writers’ Group New Writers’ Competition –   3,000 word short story. There is a £40 first prize and a FREE basic critique. Closes 26th March 2015.

Nuneaton Writers’ Circle Flash Fiction Competition – free entry. Prize is 1 year’s free membership of Nuneaton Writers’ Circle. Closes 27th March 2015.

Alfie Dog Review Competition –  download a story from Alfie Dog during March 2015 and write a  short review. First prize £100.

Enjoy the taking part!


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6 responses to “It’s the taking part that counts”

  1. Debbie W avatar

    Gosh, Sally, you were brave. Well done. I’m just wondering now if your speech included a four minute smile, lol

    Thanks for the mention about the EWG comps.

    1. Sally Jenkins avatar

      I did try to smile and look friendly whilst I was speaking, Debbie. It may have come across more as an awkward grimace though!

  2. juliathorley avatar
    juliathorley

    I agree that writing for competitions is good discipline: I’ve just written my first sci-fi short story and I’m not expecting to win, but I enjoyed the challenge. On the other hand, a couple of book review comps have revealed that this is something I can do. I only enter free ones, though, unless the prize is really tempting. I’m all for trying new things when I get the chance,and that should include pushing myself professionally. Well done for taking part in the public speaking event, which sounds very scary to me.

    1. Sally Jenkins avatar

      Fingers crossed for the sci-fi comp. Julia. I like the free competitions too but I guess they’ll get a lot more entries just because they’re free.

  3. Patsy avatar

    I’ve sold several stories which I originally wrote for competitions but weren’t placed. I think that makes me a delayed winner?

    1. Sally Jenkins avatar

      You’re absolutely a winner, Patsy! And that’s another good reason for entering competitions – if you don’t win, the story can be used elsewhere.

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